What do you love about being single and love your own company? Is it the isolation? Not sure. My friend Angel tells me that it’s a lot of other things, but it doesn’t seem to me to be the right answer to my question.
Is it self-imposed isolation? Not really. I am a product of a time when we all made us unhappy. We had nothing but trouble with love. It was only because of relationships that we had so much to deal with.
How did we get there? The main cause of that wasn’t what was happening in the outside world but what was happening within us. Too many people still believe that relationships are just a side show.
Nowadays, you must be cynical if you are not. If you don’t have anything good to say about what you do for a living, then you must take some pretty hard pills before you go out there on the street with your head up your own arse.
People won’t give you another chance if they don’t like you. They will take the easiest route in order to not hurt their feelings. In this case, they will try to dump you.
So, why do you think people won’t give you another chance? Why are they so much more interested in cutting their losses than trying to make you happy with something that you can’t give them?
Yes, they are looking for a free ticket. It’s called failure. What makes you think that you can live your life this way? Isn’t it more likely that your life is really long enough?
For you to enjoy being single and love your own company, you must keep yourself out of the public eye. That includes your job. Why do you want to see your boss every day?
Love, as they say, is for the birds. It’s not for everyone. It is just your attitude that matters.
Think about it. Why should you even care about anything about anyone else? You will be happy with your life and the time that you spend with your family, friends, and business associates. But if you are unhappy, then it is up to you to find another person to make yourself happy.
Why do you think people won’t give you another chance? It is more likely that they would rather cut your throat and eat it. When it comes to relationships, if you want to be single and love your own company, you better start thinking differently.
If you still don’t understand how to enjoy being single and love your own company, then you need to start putting some thoughts together for yourself. Put yourself in your place of work and then talk to some of your colleagues. If they are happy, you will be too.